Ive never talked about my time in EMS on here and I thought now would be a good time. I LOVED working on the ambulance. I was so upset when my doctor told me I couldn't continue working on it. A lot of people don't understand that way of life. You work for 24 hours every third day. You sometimes spend more time with your EMS family then you do your real family. You spend holidays together, you fight together, you cry together, you are at your goofiest with them (Dave has yet to hear me sing and my partner Kristan has heard me belting it out more times then she probably wanted to lol) , we understand each others feelings on things better then so many other people can. You spend such great moments with your partner and sometimes you spend your worst moments with your partner. One of my worst calls I ever ran was a bad car wreck. The 17 year old had went halfway out the sunroof of the car and the car flipped on top of her trapping her half way out between the car and the road. She obviously died before we ever had a chance to work her. As weird as it sounds that part wasn't the upsetting part to me. When we finally figured out who she was we realized that she was the same girl who had checked us out when we bought our supper at the grocery store that day. We had talked to her and I knew who her family was. We took the body into the hospital and while we were standing there they brought her parents in to identify her. I can still hear her moms cry, her screaming out. That sound will never erase from my memory. The only other person that can understand how I felt at that exact moment is the partner I was working with at that time. I couldn't go home and explain it and have people understand and I won't even try to explain it on here. The reason I share all of this is so some of you can kind of get an idea of how close you are to your partner and those you work with. The good and the bad.
Yesterday morning I was woke up with a phone call telling me that Kristan's (my partner when I worked on the ambulance) husband George had died. He was 23 years old. He was working his shift on the ambulance and died in his sleep. When his partner went to wake him up for a call he was gone. All of the medics worked him anyway. These medics were his friends and in EMS his family. There is no worse nightmare for anyone in EMS then to have to answer a call for family. I feel so bad for those that had to do it.
I have talked to Kristan. I am going to go to their house tomorrow with her so she can get some stuff together for the funeral the next day. My heart is breaking for her. Every time I think of her I cry. I remember when they first started liking each other. We tried to have a girls only movie night and she couldn't stay off her phone lol. They've only been married for a year. His dad lives here in Granite and we went over there after the wedding to celebrate. I just cant imagine what she is going through. I try not to imagine what she is going through. It is my nightmare.
I just had to get this off my chest. I came home tonight and got on ksdk.com to see what was going on in the area and the main story was about George and it had a big picture of him attached. I am going to paste it here along with a picture of me and Kristan that was taken one day where we got posted at a kids event while we were working and all the kids wanted us to paint our faces so we had them paint the EMS star of life on our cheeks.
KSDK-- An emergency medical technician who works for Medstar's Washington Park base has died in the line of duty.
George Schaub III was working a 24 hour shift that began Friday. He made the last call around midnight, and was found unresponsive at shift change Saturday morning. So far, there's no word on what caused his death.
Visitation will be held Tuesday from 4:00 p.m.-8:00 p.m. and Wednesday from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. with the funeral following at 1:00 p.m. Both will be held at Renner Funeral home in Belleville.
George Schaub was 23 years old.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Sometimes I just don't understand
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Thursday, November 13, 2008
Prop 8 Protest...please watch
There will be a nationwide protest on Saturday November 15. If you are looking for something to do and want to go out and support a very important issue visit this website to find a city near you http://jointheimpact.wetpaint.com/?t=anon``
You will want to pause my normal music player before you watch the video so you can hear it
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Monday, November 10, 2008
Maroon Eagles are #1
Well yesterday was the last normal game of Mychaels football season. They won the game which means that they are #1 in the league. It makes me so happy for the whole team. As I have mentioned before on here Mychaels team is the only team that is made up of all kids who have never played before. The other teams have all played before and are made up of older kids. So our team was the youngest, smallest, and most inexperienced and they went out this season and kicked butt! I am so proud of Mychael and of the whole team. Now they have to play the championship game in a couple of weeks. I put together a slide show of the last couple of games including yesterdays. In some of the pictures you can see the size difference in the teams. It makes my heart almost stop sometimes but it doesn't seem to faze Mychael at all. Ill keep you updated on the outcome of the championship. My family will be coming up for it so I'm excited for that as well.
See ya,
Christy
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Thursday, November 6, 2008
Nothing much to talk about...but Im sure I'll still fill the page :)
Man am I SICK of all the racist jokes being passed around now that Obama was elected. I keep getting texts with all these stupid jokes. Its just old. Its like everyone saved them up just to use them the minute the results came in. Oh well...hopefully it will get old quick and will stop. I am still emotional when I think of it all. I tivoed Obamas speech so Mychael could watch it and even watching it again I sat there and cried. It doesn't help that I'm at that "emotional time" so I'm crying easy anyway. I was so proud of Mychael last night though. Being a kid I know it is sometimes hard to understand that the differences in peoples skin color means nothing and its whats on the inside and so I wanted to see where he stood with it so I kinda tested him. We were getting ready to watch Obamas speech and I said "you know his daughter is really cute. You could start dating her and that way all of us could go to the White House" and I really kinda expected him to say something about how shes black even though I know we have taught him that its whats on the inside of people that counts. So he said "where is she?" and I told him that she was getting ready to walk onstage. So we waited and when the family came on stage he goes "yeah she is pretty cute!". It made me feel like we have taught him well. I'm not ready for the dating stage yet but the fact that he doesn't care about the color of skin (she just has to be cute!) makes me feel like he understands. I would think a lot of kids his age wouldn't understand white/black or gay/straight. Luckily Mychael understands both and accepts people for who they are. Hes such a sweet kid.
Speaking of gay/straight. I am saddened by the Prop 8 passing. Even though I don't live in California I watched that one closely and my heart hurt for those it affected. I cant imagine how it makes you feel to be told that you don't have the same rights as everyone else. I cant imagine how it would feel if Dave got hurt and someone told me I couldn't go into the hospital room. I cant imagine someone coming up to me now and telling me that our marriage was being annulled because people decided we shouldn't have the right to be married. How powerless and helpless I would feel if that were to happen to me. That is why my heart hurts for these people who are affected. No one has the right to tell you who you should/shouldn't love. Marriages between man and woman don't always go the way that they are technically supposed to. Cheating and divorce aren't supposed to be a part of marriage but a lot of times is these days. Isn't it supposed to be "til death do you part"? I know a LOT of people (me included) that it didn't work out for the first time. Does that mean that once you didn't do what you were supposed to that you should lose your rights?!? Should those of us that broke the vow we took in church not get a second chance? I just don't get why anyone has the right to judge that part of anyones life. Anyway...I'm probably not making sense because I'm getting fired up. I have a hard enough time making sense when I'm not getting worked up and trying to get my millions of thoughts typed out quick. So Ill shut up :)
Think good thoughts. think good thoughts...hmmm what to talk about now
So tonight Brayden and I watched Mychaels football practice. I was pretty excited because once it gets dark so early they cant practice for very long so that means less time sitting in the cold. I had also been counting the moments until it was dark so we could leave and I could finally eat for the first time today. So it finally gets dark and I'm ready to pack it all up when some dumbass parent decides to pull his truck in the field so his headlights would provide a little light for them to finish up. Well then that starts something and everyone starts pulling their vehicles out on the field to circle the team. Before I know it my daydreams of Arbys roast beef was slipping away headlight by headlight. So over an HOUR later the park security guy finally comes by and tells everyone they cant put their vehicles in the grass and to move it. I was ready to jump him and kiss him. My stomach was loving him. So finally I think we are leaving cause it is then pitch black and they cant see the ball right?? Yeah but they can run in the dark!! So then we sit out there for another 25 minutes while they ran. I love watching Mychael play but today was one of those days where I had my plan (meaning dinner) and I don't like when my plan gets screwed up (meaning don't mess with my food!).
Marlene (my mother in law) came back from Germany tonight. It is good to have her back. It seems like she has been gone forever. I was excited for her to see Brayden because of all the new stuff he is doing now. So she got to spend some time here after Dave picked her up at the airport. Then she went to Tanjas to see everyone and stay the night.
Well I am getting distracted by a tired and crabby Brayden so I am done for tonight. Told ya I could still fill the page LOL
See ya,
Christy
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Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Happy Birthday Mom!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
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Monday, November 3, 2008
Old OLD pictures
Tonight I was going through pictures and came across a few that I scanned onto the computer just so I could embarrass myself and my family. Some of them I came across were just cute and so I wanted to share those too. A lot of them made me go "awwww" and some of them made me go "ooohhh my God". Im sure you will be able to tell the difference between "cute" and "what the hell were we thinking?!?!" LOL. Hope you enjoy! I also added a few new songs on my playlist. The second one that comes on is called "Cheater Cheater" and I think it is so funny so make sure to turn your speakers on.
all the girls on a "girls only trip"
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